Safety Guidelines

• Describe the moment, not a verdict. No shaming, mocking, or outing anyone.
• Only post about encounters that actually happened to you.
• Never post about someone who said no, left, or asked to be left alone.
• No sexual explicitness, slurs, threats, or harassment of any kind.

• Don't include phone numbers, email addresses, social handles, last names, or workplace details in a public post — the other person didn't choose to be found.
• New posts are scanned for identifying details; moderators can redact flagged items before they stay up.
• Never share someone else's contact details, even in a reply.

• Private messages stay between participants — keep them respectful.
• Move at the other person's pace; a no or no reply is an answer.
• If you decide to meet, do it in a public place and tell a friend where you're going.

Every post, reply, and conversation has a report option. Moderators review reports privately and remove content or accounts that break the rules. You can also block any member — blocking stops them from messaging you and hides the conversation from both inboxes.

• Harassment, threats, hate speech, and impersonation.
• Content targeting a person who asked to be left alone.
• Spam, advertising, and scam attempts.
• Anything illegal or that puts someone at risk.